Why Going Dutch on Your Dates Will Make Her Like You More

"She will feel happy to pay her own part of the bill"

“She will feel happy to pay her own part of the bill”

You have probably been taught since childhood that you should pay for a woman’s half of the date, and it may be difficult for you to decide to split the bill when you go out on dates. Going Dutch on dates has steadily become more and more popular as time goes by, and there is a definite reason for it. Choosing to split the bill with your date instead of demanding that you pay for her half of the bill could make your date appreciate you that much more. It might seem strange to you, but there are some reasons why this can be so beneficial to you and your date.

It Takes Pressure Off of Her

"She will be more confident in ordering her food"

“She will be more confident in ordering her food”

If someone pays for your lunch, chances are that you might feel a little bit indebted to them. After all, there’s no such thing as a free lunch. If somebody spends money on you, you may wind up feeling obligated to return the favor in some way, or you may feel like you owe that person because they spent money on you. Most women feel this way when it comes to having their dates paid for, and it creates an uncomfortable tension that shouldn’t exist in a dating relationship. If you let her pay for her own way, she won’t be staring at the menu trying to pick the cheapest thing so she doesn’t make the bill so high for you. She can feel free to choose whatever she wants and is comfortable paying for on her own, and it takes a lot of tension away from what should always be a stress-free environment. This is true for most women, and though you may occasionally wind up with a woman who likes being pampered, it’s best to assume that you should be splitting the bill on most dates.

It Makes Her Feel More Secure

It may seem strange to you, but women will often feel safer with you if you let them pay for their own half of a date. She’s probably had plenty of guys try to hold the fact that they paid for the date over her head in an attempt to get her to do something she doesn’t want to. While you may feel like she owes you something if you pay for her half of the date, it’s not good for your chances if you try to use that tactic on her. The best way to make her comfortable with you is to let her pay for her half of the date.

Always Make Sure to Ask


You should make sure to ask your date if she would rather pay for her half of the bill, or if she’s fine with you paying for all of it. You may run into women who actually want to be spoiled, and in that case you will want to pay for her half of the bill so that you can make her happy by spoiling her, even if it comes at the cost of your wallet.


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