There are few things worst than going on a date with a woman and saying or doing something that offends or upsets her. When you find yourself in that situation, getting out of it may seem tricky. However, if you clear things up right away, it’s easy to move pass it without much harm done.
We know it may go against everything you stand for, but when you’ve done something that you’re pretty sure has upset her it’s best to apologize and get it over with. A lot of times, it seems as though women will never be satisfied even after you’ve apologized, but we’ve found that this typically deals with how you apologize to them. One of the worst things you can do is make up an excuse for why you upset her in the first place. For instance, if you’ve just told an offensive joke that she didn’t like, do not apologize by saying you didn’t realize it would upset her or that she was sensitive to that type of joke. This type of apology will just make things worse. If you absolutely have to find something to blame your behavior on, tell her that you made the joke because she’s beautiful and you’re nervous and wanted to impress her. She may not forgive you right away, but she will be flattered.
When you do apologize, make sure you actually say the words, “I’m sorry.” Do not just say something like, “I didn’t mean to upset you,” as that is not a complete apology and she will more than likely call you on it. You want her to believe that your apology is sincere even if it isn’t, so make sure when you apologize, it sounds believable and like you completely understand how you upset her.
The good thing about apologizing right away is that she will usually forgive you. Most women don’t want to stay mad at you, so when they think you are sincerely sorry about something, they will probably accept your apology. Even after she has accepted your apology, don’t leave it at that. The next thing you are going to want to do is redeem yourself.
You may have seen movies with men going out to buy women flowers and chocolates and other gifts to make up for something they did to upset a woman, but you do not need to go down that route. In fact, all you really need to do is to make sure you keep a smile on her face throughout the rest of the day and you’ll be back in her good graces. Make her laugh or make dinner for her. You won’t have to tell her you’re trying to make up for your mistake. She will already know and when she sees you trying to make her happy, you can consider yourself forgiven.
Sometimes it takes a sting to your pride to have to apologize to a woman, especially if it’s for something stupid. However, instead of arguing over something pointless, simply apologize and get back on track to getting laid.