It’s always inspiring to see the guy in the middle of his buddies giving them advice on the best way to get trim. Then you see him turn to another buddy and tell him the best place to get engagement rings for his girlfriend. Yet again he turns and is helping someone with how to dress to impress the new office worker in the pencil skirt. How does this guy do it? He’s become the dating guru among his friends. Obviously he’s very valuable to have around, so he gets a lot of respect and a few perks (beer on his friends dime, mostly). You too can be a dating guru. When you turn into the guy that does it all right you’ll be having grateful friends listening to your every word.
Be Well Versed
A guru isn’t just great at one aspect of his craft. You’ve got to put yourself out there and experience the entire dating world. Go out and have a few flings, but also commit yourself to a real relationship. Do the nasty stuff but also be the perfect gentleman in bed. Obviously you don’t have to do these things all at the same time, but you want to get the experience under your belt. That’s what gives you the upper hand over other guys when you’re attempting to become the man who knows it all.
Ask Women Questions
What makes a dating guru so important in a group of friends is that he’s the translator from women to men. It’s not an easy job since men and women seem so opposite sometimes. So it’s up to you to bridge the gap by admitting that you don’t know everything. Ask her advice on as many subjects as you can think of. Why do women think they’re fat? Is there a reason they don’t just say what they mean? She might think that you’re being rude at first, but genuinely tell her that you want to know. Whatever woman you happen to be talking to will gladly spill her secrets if it means that you listen to her.
Get a Good Reputation
No one is going to believe that you’re the perfect guy to talk to for dating if you don’t have evidence to back it up. No matter what situation you’re with a woman in, you always treat her the best that you can. You want women to tell their friends about you and come up to you on the street “just to talk”. The more often the fellas can see you having positive interactions with women the more likely they are to actually want your advice.
Why You Should Try It
Of course you’ll have the gratitude of all of your friends, but even more than that you’re going to be important. It’s an awesome feeling to be good at something that others aren’t so sure in. Plus you’re going to have the best of luck with women.