Some of us are naturally more flirtatious than others. There’s nothing wrong with it, but it can get you into trouble sometimes. Going out of your way to caress her lower back might not be the most appropriate when you’re at the opera. Luckily there are some dates that are geared specifically towards being flirty. This way you’ll get to act natural and you’ll be in the clear for laying on the charm. While there are a ton of different flirty date ideas, aim for anything that involves more physical contact or a bonding sort of experience.
Take your date out to a local dance class. There are teachers who do different styles, but ballroom is a big hit. Swing dancing, the tango, and waltzes all involve a lot of touching between the two partners. The men in these styles of dance are also very handsy in general. You’ve got to be her support and frame for everything so often you’ll be touching her back and, if you’re doing a more advanced class, her legs and stomach. It’s pretty sexy when you’ve got some steamy music and a slithery woman in front of you. Avoid hip hop classes. While they’re really fun and might have more modern music they tend to be more individual. Even partners hip hop doesn’t have a ton of grinding or anything exciting.
All right, so there’s not really touching in this date. But you know what there is going to be? Yoga pants. God’s gift to man. These pants make any ass look good and you get to be behind it admiring. Plus being the type of guy who will go to yoga class with a chick on a date makes you look sensitive.
Any sort of alcoholic tasting will lead to at least a little bit of tipsiness. Ask in advance if she’s alright with wine, because it’s not for everyone. Besides that driving around to different wineries can be a good place for conversation, but obviously you can’t drink when you drive. Instead opt for a tour bus or vehicle if it’s available. That way the two of you can talk and drink all you want.
You might go out and take another class on cooking or baking or you can do it at home. Getting involved in the food that you two are going to be eating can be very rewarding and sexy. There’s a certain amount of working together and closeness that’s involved when you’re maneuvering in a kitchen. Use those opportunities to brush up against her and give her a hand with whatever she’s working on.
Anything Where You Can Be Competitive
Mini golf, arcade games, racing, etc. all lend themselves well to flirty people because you can add a little competitive edge in. You’ll get an adrenaline boost and can make little bets like “If I win you have to give me a kiss on the cheek”. You might lose, but then you get to see what she demands you to do.