Any guy who has a habit that might be described as “quirky” knows that introducing a woman to your hobby can be a recipe for disaster. And any guy who doesn’t have a lot of hobbies knows that it’s hard to get a woman’s attention when you don’t have anything to set you apart from the pack. Here are three hobbies that a quirky or non-quirky guy can use to attract a great woman!
Building Bird Houses
This might seem like something your grandfather would be interested in, but the truth is that ladies love a man who works with his hands. Ladies also love nature. If you start crafting bird houses, bird feeders, things that appeal to nature, she’ll eat it up. It also shows that you’re a handy man who knows his way around some lumber and a hammer. These are things that aren’t as common in the modern age as they used to be. Even though she may not say that she wants a man who can do some fix-it chores around the house, you’re appealing to an age-old standard of masculinity that women adore.
Ships in a Bottle
This may seem like the most boring hobby ever, but a lot of the guys find that it’s actually a great way to focus. And when you spend a couple hours carefully putting together a ship in a bottle kit you’re saying to a woman “I have attention to detail, and I can focus!” Think about what women most complain about in men: we never pay attention and we’re impatient, forceful oafs. Building something delicate and painstaking is a way of showing her that you’re the kind of guy who won’t be a problem for her. You possess those traits that she’s always been looking for and never found before. This is a killer way to make yourself stand out from the crowd!
Local History Buff
This quirky habit might interest you more than you think! Whether you live in a tiny little town in the middle of nowhere or the bustle of a big city, you can pick up some local history. Skim around, and you’ll be surprised by what you might find! This is especially true in a small town where families stay for generations. You might be able to uncover something special, and even if you can’t you can charm her with a little interesting conversation about the town. Just make sure that it really is interesting! Don’t drone on and on for hours about long dead farmers, for example. Stick to the juicy stuff: crime, murders, and which trees they used to hang men from the old city park.
Give these hobbies a try. If they fit your life and give you something interesting to do for a couple hours a week, keep them around. You’ll impress the ladies and have a great time doing it. If they don’t work for you, move on. These might be the most perfectly tailored quirky hobbies out there, but there are others that could fit you better.