It might seem counter-intuitive to think about dating or hooking up with a girl who says she’s religious, but it really isn’t as much of a dead end as you think. A lot of girls who describe themselves as religious still have sex, and are just as kinky – or kinkier – in bed than girls who are not.
Why Date a Religious Girl
Girls who come from religious homes or attended religious schools, tend to have gotten conflicting messages about sex and boundaries in sex. There’s a reason why there’s a stereotype of religious girls giving great blowjobs. To a religious girl, everything about sex is kinky and “dirty”, and there is nothing hotter and more of a turn on a lot of girls than kinky sex.
Her Religion Makes a Difference
People hold a wide variety of religious beliefs, so your first step in figuring out if there’s a possibility that you and she can work is to figure out exactly what religion this girl belongs to and what beliefs she follows. If you already know that she’s religious, it’s probably because she’s told you or posted it in her profile. If she belongs to one of the Christian religions, then her beliefs about sex might include prohibitions about premarital sex or same-sex relations (so a threesome with another girl would theoretically be out of the question). If she’s a member of a religion you’ve never heard of, or don’t know much about, take that as your cue to do some research.
When all is said and done take whatever she tells you, or what you’ve heard about her religion, with a grain of salt. Some girls describe themselves as religious, when all they really mean is that they go to services regularly. A girl who is really that religious would probably be posting on a dating site for religious singles.
What She Probably Means
A lot of the times when girls go out of their way to tell you they’re religious, their reasoning is that they want you to respect them and not assume they’ll sleep with you. This isn’t much different from what other girls might say. When a girl says she’s religious, she’s probably just saying “I’m not down for sex or hook ups…unless I really want to be.”
The way you get with a religious girl is by playing along. Keep sex talk and profanity out of your conversation with her if that’s the way she prefers it. Let her talk about her beliefs and don’t try to argue religion with her, even if you’re atheist. Pretend an interest in her views even if you don’t agree at all. If she mentions you going to church with her some day, don’t immediately shoot her down even if you have no intention of ever doing so. Remember, you don’t want to give her a reason to have to turn you down. In all actuality she probably wants to go to bed with you. However she can’t do it without losing face if you don’t at least put up a pretense of respecting her views.