Don’t get us wrong – everybody hides something. It’s the name of the game in dating when you’re trying to make yourself and your profile as attractive and appealing as possible to the opposite sex. However when you’re dating online, there are certain things that should send a red flag up in your mind if she’s been dancing around revealing them to you. It may be a sign that she’s straight out lying to you….maybe even about being a real person.
She Won’t Tell You Who She is
Let’s say you’ve been chatting with a hot girl for some time. You’ve exchanged names, pictures and video, so you think everything’s good. But for some reason, although this has been going on for weeks or even months, she still won’t give you basic information like her last name, which might be all well and good, except that the reason you’re both online in the first place is to meet and date people. When a girl seems to like you enough to flirt with you for long periods of time, but isn’t willing to give up her last name or what part of the city she lives in, then you might as well cut your losses and move on. This girl might be married, already dating someone, or lying about something else she doesn’t want you to find out in a Google search.
She Doesn’t Want to Meet You In Person
Since the purpose of meeting online is to eventually find and hook up with other people, a girl who plays games about meeting in person is wasting your time. Chatting, messaging, and emailing – even about sex – is great and all but it’ll get tired fast if she keeps turning you down or bailing on plans to meet in person. A girl who won’t meet in person is either playing games, married, or has been lying to you about what she looks like. The worst case scenario is that you’ve been chatting all along with a person who doesn’t really exist.
You Can’t Reach Her for Long Periods of Time
You have a life outside your online profile and so does she. You understand that, but you don’t get why sometimes she seems to disappear for days and weeks at a time without warning. When she resurfaces she usually has a good excuse, but after the third and fourth time this happens you notice that it’s the same excuse, or that her excuses are becoming progressively weaker. The reason for her disappearing act might be something as simple as the fact that she’s chatting or dating other guys at the same time she’s been talking to you. You might not actually care, but the fact that she’s lying to you about it is a serious red flag to you. If she’s lying to you about something trivial like this that you can easily find out about, it’s probably true that she’s lying – or WILL lie – to you about something much more important.