Keeping the Momentum: When Your First Online Conversation Goes Well

Only you can know how much time and effort you’ve put into your search, and how many hurdles you’ve had to get over, to arrive at the point where you finally connect with one of the ladies whose profiles caught your eye. It might have often seemed like you spent time writing interesting things about yourself, taking good photos for your profile, and sending all those messages to say hello, just to watch them to disappear into a great, black void without a response. Now finally your efforts have paid off and you’ve sparked what you think is a real start with someone. She’s responding to your messages and so far seems interested in what she’s seen of you. At this point, you’re hoping that everything continues to go well. Don’t Get Too Confident As crucial as these first initial messages were to getting the ball rolling on actually meeting up with her in person, it’s important not to think that you can sit back now and everything will continue to work out. You still need to put in the same kind of effort and thought into what you say and do that got her interested and talking to you in the first place. So that means, basically, you need…

Is Being in a Band Still Going to Get You Chicks When You’re over 30?

So you never became a rock star. You and the boys still like to get together and churn out some music. But lately, you’ve started to wonder: is bragging to women that you’re in a band still impressive, or does it make you look immature? We’re not talking about quitting the band, but should you mention that when you’re trying to impress a woman at the bar? Should it be a cornerstone of your online dating profile, or should you skip it all together now that you’re not in your 20s anymore? Staying Youthful Bags You Ladies Who Are Young ) There’s a large percentage of young women who like older men. You seem experienced, world weary, just the right amount of experience to make them think that you’ve seen it all. Not to mention the fact that you’ve had a few extra years to get experience in bed that the co-ed down the hall she’s used to being with couldn’t even begin to match. Young women want older guys. If you look like a cool older guy, you’re all but guaranteed to score. She’ll love that you’re in a band because it makes you seem like you’re young at heart-and you are. Remember, 31 is only old to a…

Hooking Up with a Boring Woman (But At Least She’s Hot)

Sometimes you might end up living in a place where the pickings are pretty slim. The women might be unattractive, rude, or sleep around. Consider yourself lucky. Some men have to sink so low as to hook up with a boring woman. It doesn’t sound like the worst thing when you say it out loud, but think about it. When you’re having a fling with someone whose personality is as colorful as white bread you’re going to get bored along with her really quickly. The only saving grace she’s got is that she’s sexy. So how can you deal? Accept It Having sex with a boring woman and expecting her to scream like a banshee is just stupid. She’s most likely going to become a dead fish (not the squirming kind, the kind that’s been rotting in the boat). She’ll lay there and take what you’ve got, but not really do much in turn. Her bouncing bosom might be enough to quell your eyes, but that’s about all that’s going to happen on her end. What You Can Do About It You might be tempted to actually put a lot of effort in for a while. Maybe your amazing dick will be what breaks her boring shell. But most likely…

Fashion Trends You Should Avoid if You Want to Attract Women

One important aspect of the dating scene is making sure that you present yourself in the best way possible. Unfortunately, that usually includes your fashion choices. Fashion tends to be difficult to understand even for women, but fashion works to their advantage because they have such a broader range of choices. For men, it can be much more difficult to know what will look good on you and what will make you look extremely silly or just plain terrible. Fashion trends come and go, and sometimes it can be difficult to know what will stay popular or what will go out of style faster than you can blink. Trends That Seem Over the Top Just because your favorite celebrity or singer has decided that drop-waist metallic pants or socks with clogs is the latest fashion does not mean that you should, too. If a trend seems like it would be better fitted for a modern art museum or on a ridiculous high-fashion runway, then it is definitely something you should avoid. You should remember that most celebrities have stylists that choose what they wear, and more often than not it winds up being ridiculous. It works for them because they’re famous and they don’t really have a choice, but you…


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