Basic Rules of Conduct with Older Women

Going after older women is a little bit different than chasing after the younger crowd you see on these dating sites. Meeting married women is still quite easy if you know a few tips and tricks, however, and fortunately, we’ve been around the block when it comes to knowing exactly what they like.

Let them set the boundaries.

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The thing about dating married women is that they’re the ones with lots more to lose. It’s better to let them set the boundaries in your hookup, as they’re going to be the ones nervous and concerned about the hookup itself.

You have to remember when you’re reading ratings of websites to meet women that certain sites cater more to married women than others. These are the sites that you want to be on, especially because they are more discreet.

A married, older woman is going to want a discreet site. They are going to want to be on a site where they feel safe, protected, and in general, comfortable meeting someone that will not ruin their marriage or family life.

You can’t come on too strong.

With older, married ladies, you can never push too hard. You really have to let her have the upper hand in most things, and that’s just something you’re going to have to accept.

The fact of the matter is that she’s already going to be more selective than most of the women that you’ve hooked up with in the past. She’s going to know what she wants, and she’s only going to go for that.

If you end up coming on too strong, she’ll probably only end up being annoyed with you. That’s not going to end up in a successful hookup; it’s going to end up in her dumping you on the spot.

Listen to what she has to say.


In the bedroom, she’s going to have preferences. If she’s married and out looking for a hookup, then it means she isn’t getting something from her husband, and she’s going to want it from you.

If you can listen to her demands and really give her what she wants, she’ll keep coming back for more. It’s up to you to please her and to make her happy, otherwise she’s not going to come back to you again.

Of course, you can always interject with your own ideas. Older women like a younger man that’s going to have ideas in the bedroom, so let her know some of them and see what she thinks.

Watch how you contact her.

A lot of older, married women aren’t going to appreciate phone calls. This is because they really don’t want their husbands finding out about you, and that’s why you have to be careful.

Most older women will appreciate e-mails and texts only, but really make sure that you’re finding out which one she prefers. Talk to her about how she’d like to be contacted, and you’ll both be able to function much more easily.

It’s always important to remember that she’s the one with another life that she has to handle. You never want to end up being a hassle to her, because if you are, she’ll simply find another man to be with.

Don’t overstep the boundaries.

If she sets a rule, follow it. You expect the same sort of thing from the younger ladies you’re with, and you should follow that same kind of guideline!


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