Why You Shouldn’t Take Her to the Movies

Going on a date to the movies is a classic scenario, and when you start meeting women more frequently you may be tempted to follow the stereotype and take her out to see a movie. This can be fine if you’re already dating a woman and you have been out together several times, but if you are just starting to date a woman you should avoid taking her out to a movie at all costs. It might seem like a cheap and easy date, but if you cop out and wind up doing it the chances of your dating relationship or hookup being successful are low. There are several reasons why you should ditch the movie date and try something else. It Will Bore Her While the movie you go see may be exciting, most likely your date will wind up being bored by the movie date in general. If she has had any experience with dating, she’s probably been on more movie dates than she can remember. If she can have any guy take her out on a movie date, you aren’t going to stick out in her mind as being particularly interesting, creative, or daring. You should stay away from movie dates for this exact reason. If your…

Why You Shouldn’t Date Women Who Live with Their Parents

Dating a woman who lives with her parents is probably one of the worst things you can do. Women who live with their parents typically end up being too exhausting to deal with and you will quickly find yourself wanting a way out of the relationship. While it may seem like it would be kind of fun and may even help you relive your younger days, dating a woman who lives with her parents is really just more trouble than it’s worth. She Always Wants to Spend Time With You Dating a woman who lives with her parents is terrible because she will always want to be with you. If she’s unable to move out on her own, chances are, she is looking for a way to be out of the house as much as possible. If you have your own place, you can be certain that she is always going to want to be there. Even if you really like her, you will get sick of seeing her face at your place all the time. The worst part is that she will slowly start trying to move in with you. You will start notice that she is leaving more and more of her things at your place and that…

Why You Should Hook Up With Nerdy Girls

You may be used to trying to meet women in bars and trying to hook up with the hottest women there, but by doing so you may be missing out on a seriously untapped market of women. The nerdy girl. She may not be rocking the full face of makeup and the tiny dress, but there are some serious benefits to looking to hook up with nerdy girls instead of going for the prima donnas. They may not be prowling in the bars every night, but once you know where to find nerdy girls you should be able to pick them up with relative ease. Your Chances Might Be Better ) The bombshell women that hang around bars have undoubtedly had more attention from men than they really know what to do with, but it’s simply not the same case for nerdy or geeky girls. These type of women are more laid-back and likely don’t go out clubbing to try and pick up men, so they will be much less accustomed to being flirted with and complimented. This type of inexperience will definitely work to your favor, since she’s less likely to have heard it all before. Your mildest compliments might seem like high praise to her, so picking her…

Why Going Dutch on Your Dates Will Make Her Like You More

You have probably been taught since childhood that you should pay for a woman’s half of the date, and it may be difficult for you to decide to split the bill when you go out on dates. Going Dutch on dates has steadily become more and more popular as time goes by, and there is a definite reason for it. Choosing to split the bill with your date instead of demanding that you pay for her half of the bill could make your date appreciate you that much more. It might seem strange to you, but there are some reasons why this can be so beneficial to you and your date. It Takes Pressure Off of Her If someone pays for your lunch, chances are that you might feel a little bit indebted to them. After all, there’s no such thing as a free lunch. If somebody spends money on you, you may wind up feeling obligated to return the favor in some way, or you may feel like you owe that person because they spent money on you. Most women feel this way when it comes to having their dates paid for, and it creates an uncomfortable tension that shouldn’t exist in a dating relationship. If you let her…

Whether or Not to Give Gifts on Dates

) When you start going out on dates regularly, you might be tempted to bring along a gift to give to your date. After all, bringing flowers or chocolates to your girlfriend or hookup can only be a good thing that will make her much more likely to want to go further with you, right? Unfortunately, sometimes it might not be a good idea to give gifts on dates. It can be difficult to know when to give a gift on a date and when to forgo the gift-giving, but if you think ahead and plan carefully you should be able to get the hang of it. Knowing if She Wants to be Spoiled or Not Some women you’ll meet and date have an inherent desire to be spoiled. While this can wind up being bad for your wallet, some women might just be worth it. If you wind up dating or hooking up with a woman who wants to be spoiled, bringing her a present on your date will be sure to really get you into her good graces. Knowing if a woman wants to be spoiled can sometimes be tricky, but other times it will be completely obvious. For example, if she seems to be more inclined to…

What to Do When You Think You’ve Upset Her?

There are few things worst than going on a date with a woman and saying or doing something that offends or upsets her. When you find yourself in that situation, getting out of it may seem tricky. However, if you clear things up right away, it’s easy to move pass it without much harm done. Apologize ) We know it may go against everything you stand for, but when you’ve done something that you’re pretty sure has upset her it’s best to apologize and get it over with. A lot of times, it seems as though women will never be satisfied even after you’ve apologized, but we’ve found that this typically deals with how you apologize to them. One of the worst things you can do is make up an excuse for why you upset her in the first place. For instance, if you’ve just told an offensive joke that she didn’t like, do not apologize by saying you didn’t realize it would upset her or that she was sensitive to that type of joke. This type of apology will just make things worse. If you absolutely have to find something to blame your behavior on, tell her that you made the joke because she’s beautiful and you’re nervous and…

What to Do When She Hates Everything You Like

The dating world isn’t the easiest to navigate through. Chances that you’ll find a match perfect in every way that shares all of your interests are slim to none. We’re not saying there aren’t any hot women out there looking for someone to date because there are. We are saying that it’s going to be tough to find one who likes all the things you like. That fact brings up the issues of compatibility. You might land a date with a woman you’re genuinely interested in only to find that you have little to nothing in common. This doesn’t mean that you stand no chance. It does mean that you have to be patient and a little innovative. Be Open-Minded ) Like we said, finding a woman who is passionate about everything you’re passionate about is difficult to do. It’s still possible to date and be happy with someone that you don’t have much in common with. A key component to that process is being open-minded. So she has little to no affinity to your taste in music-does that mean that you don’t like hers? You won’t know until you try. So invite her to share her music library with you one night over drinks at your place. You might…

What to Do When She Buys You a Nicer Gift

Any couple that hasn’t been together that long on Valentine’s day as asked themselves this question: how much are they going to get me? You don’t want to be that guy who totally goes all out over a small event. Or maybe you and she have been together for three months, six months, or a year, and you’re just not feeling super hot about it anymore. You pick her out a nice gift, and then when you swap she’s holding a love trinket while you’ve struck gold. How can you handle a situation like that with aplomb? Blame Shipping Delays If there’s one thing she should be able to understand, it’s that men procrastinate. You got her a really great gift, and you thought that it was going to be there in time. So you just picked something up for her locally so you wouldn’t show up empty handed. Boy, is your face red. But when it gets here, you’re going to throw her a dinner that’s just as romantic as the one you’re having right now. Just to make it up to her. She might see through this and she might not, but either way you have time to go home and order her something nicer. When it does…

What She’s Trying to Tell You With Her Body Language

) Trying to meet and date women by picking them up in bars or any other crowded public setting can be a difficult and daunting process, especially when the woman you’re talking to snubs you for seemingly no reason. Women can be difficult to read at the best of times, but if you know how to read her body language you may find yourself having a much easier time knowing how to proceed. Most times, women choose not to vocalize what they’re actually thinking, but it’s much harder for them to disguise their body language. If you can recognize common body language, you should have a better chance of picking women up or knowing when to cut your losses and move on. Signs of Interest Before Conversation You might want to know which women you should approach to begin with, and while this can be a bit difficult it can also greatly accelerate your process of talking to women if you know what to look for. Look out for women who are looking over at you. If they are interested in you, they’ll let you catch them looking and will hold eye contact with you across the room, probably smiling a bit. If they look away immediately, then chances are…

Using Social Media to Improve Your Chances (Without Being a Creeper)

In today’s dating world, a guy needs every bit of help he can get. This isn’t to say that you’re not a worthy catch. It is to say that dating is a competitive game. So why not use every thing you can to get an edge over all the other guys? This is where social media comes in. The fact of the matter is that people tend to interact more through social media than they do face to face. It’s convenient and it’s fast. What’s more, it’s not just men using social media to improve their chances. Women do it, too. So if you’re looking for ways to get better at the dating game, just keep reading. Be Discreet Everyone’s done it. You meet someone you like and there’s chemistry, so you go home and look them up on Facebook or Google Plus. We all fill out our social media profiles knowing that other people can read them, which means that we’re putting information out there that we want other people to read. There’s no shame in using these social media platforms to do a little research as long as you keep it discreet. For example, check out her movie and music interests. Make a mental note and the next…

Top Three Tips for Hiding Hair Loss

Losing your hair is a challenge that most men aren’t ready to face. Sure, you can take it in stride, but why should you settle? Your dating life doesn’t have to be over just because your hair has decided to fall down on the job. These three tips are simple, easy to manage, and can keep you looking good even without a full head of hair. Bleach Your Hair Blonde hair is naturally thinner. If you bleach your hair and then dye over it with a light but “natural” shade, it will look fuller or more normal just from that. This little boost helps the most with mild hair loss. If your hair could be considered “thinning”, and you want to prolong the amount of time that you can hide this from the general public, do this. Also, if you have light skin, you can help downplay hair loss by making your scalp stand out less. Light skin against blond hair is less noticeable than light skin peaking through dark brown or black hair. Lighten your hair to keep the visibility low. Use Hair Gel ) If your hair is thinning, you should be doing everything you can to give yourself more volume. This means blow drying, and it also…

Three Rules for Being the Other Man

There’s a lot of material out there that follows how to keep a mistress. This mostly overlooks the fact that sometimes it’s great to be a housewife’s dirty little secret. You get all the perks. She thinks about you, you’re mostly around for sex, and you get a dangerous little thrill for sneaking in behind some other guy’s back. If you want your piece on the side to stay secret, though, you need to follow these three basic rules. Time Management Is Key ) When you’re hooking up with a woman who is married, you want to have the illusion of danger but not actual danger itself. If you want to keep your fling on the down low you need to be mindful of the time that you’re spending with this woman. It doesn’t pay to get relaxed and assume that she’s going to be vigilant. If you do your job right, she’s going to be way too lazy to keep track of things like when her husband is going to be home. On the plus side, this means that you can streamline your time with her. In the interest of safety, you can move things quickly to the bedroom, take your time, and then be on your way just…

Things that Are Sure to Piss Her Off

) Women receive messages from men on online dating sites all the time. However, because so many men lack the necessary amount of charm and tact when sending messages to women, their messages end up getting ignored. If you’ve been sending women messages online and have noticed that you haven’t been getting back any replies, it is quite possible that the messages you are sending have angered the women that you are interested in. Sexual Messages There are few women on dating sites that want to receive sexual messages from you, especially if you are trying to meet her on a dating site where sex isn’t the main focus. If you see a woman that you’re interested in getting to know, do not send her any messages referencing parts of her body. For example, no woman wants to receive a message such as, “love those big breasts.” It’s tasteless and you’ve successfully made sure that she will never be interested in you or anything that you may have to say. More importantly, if you send her this type of message, you will never be able to redeem yourself. Another message you don’t want to send is asking her if she wants to get on Skype or some other type of…

The Dating Guru: How to Be the Guy That Does It All Right

It’s always inspiring to see the guy in the middle of his buddies giving them advice on the best way to get trim. Then you see him turn to another buddy and tell him the best place to get engagement rings for his girlfriend. Yet again he turns and is helping someone with how to dress to impress the new office worker in the pencil skirt. How does this guy do it? He’s become the dating guru among his friends. Obviously he’s very valuable to have around, so he gets a lot of respect and a few perks (beer on his friends dime, mostly). You too can be a dating guru. When you turn into the guy that does it all right you’ll be having grateful friends listening to your every word. Be Well Versed A guru isn’t just great at one aspect of his craft. You’ve got to put yourself out there and experience the entire dating world. Go out and have a few flings, but also commit yourself to a real relationship. Do the nasty stuff but also be the perfect gentleman in bed. Obviously you don’t have to do these things all at the same time, but you want to get the experience under your belt. That’s…

The Best Dates to Go On with Your Online Lover

The date has been set and you’re finally going to get to really meet your online lover. She’s hot as hell, connects with you, and you’re feeling pretty excited about finally getting to touch her. So what should you do when she gets here? Aside from the obvious (make all the moves on her) you’re going to have to put some thought into what kind of date you want to do with her. You might not get a lot of time together and it will probably be a while before you see her again, so you don’t want to screw this up. To the Caf

The Best Dates to Go On for Flirty Guys

Some of us are naturally more flirtatious than others. There’s nothing wrong with it, but it can get you into trouble sometimes. Going out of your way to caress her lower back might not be the most appropriate when you’re at the opera. Luckily there are some dates that are geared specifically towards being flirty. This way you’ll get to act natural and you’ll be in the clear for laying on the charm. While there are a ton of different flirty date ideas, aim for anything that involves more physical contact or a bonding sort of experience. Dance Class Take your date out to a local dance class. There are teachers who do different styles, but ballroom is a big hit. Swing dancing, the tango, and waltzes all involve a lot of touching between the two partners. The men in these styles of dance are also very handsy in general. You’ve got to be her support and frame for everything so often you’ll be touching her back and, if you’re doing a more advanced class, her legs and stomach. It’s pretty sexy when you’ve got some steamy music and a slithery woman in front of you. Avoid hip hop classes. While they’re really fun and might have more modern music…

The Best Dates to Go On for a Shy Guy

The dating world can be more foreign than Mars, and navigating it is hard for any guy. But when you’re a shy guy, you have to deal with the added fear of talking to women. Most shy men have a difficult time keeping conversations up and putting themselves out there at first. It happens for a ton of different reasons so there’s not really a catch-all cure for the shy. There are some awesome date ideas that can help ease the nerves, though. Mini Golf Mini golf is a great date idea in general, but when you’re feeling shy it’s an easy way to go do something that’s fun and easy. You’ll be moving around a lot and obviously putting golf balls on a tiny course. That means that you won’t have to make a ton of conversation. Talk about the lame buildings and fake ponds along the course and maybe throw in some competitive banter back and forth. She’ll like it and you’ll have a very relaxed date. Comedy Night Pick a local comedy club and take your date there. While you’re waiting for the show to start it might feel a little weird, but once the comedian comes out and starts telling their jokes it’s going to be…

The Best Dates to Go On for a Competitive Guy

All right, it’s not the worst quality to have, but being competitive can have its drawbacks. Most people have a certain edge in them that makes them want to win. But some go a little bit overboard and can freak their date out with how much they want to show off or win. There’s a balance to be found between letting your lady know that you’re really good at whatever it is that you’re doing and being overbearing. Choosing a date setting that can compliment what you’ve got going on instead of fighting it is a key factor to doing this. Just Dance Going out and dancing or taking a class together will be a sexy date overall, but even better than that you’ll be able to show off. But you won’t be a tool bag; instead you’ll look like an excellent student who’s there for his partner. She’ll love that you’re getting into dancing with her and you’ll love that you’re better at it than the other guys. Go Rock Climbing Rock climbing is one of those things that really shouldn’t be all that fun. You put on a crotch-hugging harness and climb up a wall with a ton of fake rock handles. What’s great about it is that…

The Best Dates for a Socially Awkward Guy

Not all of us were blessed with the ability to be in public and not completely shut down. Socially awkward guys might have a tough time putting themselves out there to get a date and have a good time, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to. If you’re one of those guys you’ll feel better to know that there are ways to date, even if you aren’t the slickest eel in the ocean. A few key dates can at least help you get over your weirdness around her and hopefully start up something. The Movies Other people might say that it seems really clich

Small Gifts for Short Anniversaries

You know that women love to celebrate tiny anniversaries. Yes, starting even a week after you’ve first gone out. It’s just something that she’s going to love. The question becomes, what can you get her for these tiny milestones that isn’t going to break the bank? Or overstep your commitment level. Still, if she’s special enough for you to want to spoil her often, here’s a quick and easy guide for what to get her for your first three major milestones together. Get Her Something Sweet for a Week A week after you go out with her for the first time, get her a box of chocolates. A small one, wrapped with a ribbon. You can splurge on candy from a nice place and still have it come out to less than ten bucks. Six specialty chocolates are a cheap, but sweet gift both literally and figuratively. She’ll get the rush of being special to you, and you’ll know that you’ve made her feel special. It’s a win-win situation that honors your very first milestone as a couple. Get Her Something Spicy for a Month The monthaversary is the newest big deal in relationships. While this may seem like just another drag to a lot of guys (and trust us,…

Romantic Date Ideas That Are Actually Cheesy

Taking a girl out on a romantic date is one of the best and easiest ways to make sure she really appreciates you. It can also really set you apart from the other guys, since most women only ever get taken out on typical, boring dates. When you’re trying to decide what kind of romantic date to take her on, however, you should be considerate of the fact that some things you might think are romantic are actually extremely cheesy and overdone. Taking a girl out on one of these dates will most likely have the opposite affect that you’re going for, so there are definitely some things you should be watching out for. Cooking Dinner Together Cooking dinner together might seem like a romantic date, but there are far too many ways it can possibly go wrong. It can also be drastically cheesy if you lack the proper chemistry with your date, so this is a date idea you should probably shelf until you’re in a committed relationship where messing things up can seem cute instead of awkward. There are too many factors that can lead to this type of date being a disaster. Obviously, if you can’t cook, this is a date you should completely strike off the…

Quirky Hobbies She’s Going to Love

Any guy who has a habit that might be described as “quirky” knows that introducing a woman to your hobby can be a recipe for disaster. And any guy who doesn’t have a lot of hobbies knows that it’s hard to get a woman’s attention when you don’t have anything to set you apart from the pack. Here are three hobbies that a quirky or non-quirky guy can use to attract a great woman! Building Bird Houses ) This might seem like something your grandfather would be interested in, but the truth is that ladies love a man who works with his hands. Ladies also love nature. If you start crafting bird houses, bird feeders, things that appeal to nature, she’ll eat it up. It also shows that you’re a handy man who knows his way around some lumber and a hammer. These are things that aren’t as common in the modern age as they used to be. Even though she may not say that she wants a man who can do some fix-it chores around the house, you’re appealing to an age-old standard of masculinity that women adore. Ships in a Bottle This may seem like the most boring hobby ever, but a lot of the guys find that…

Lies to Tell Her When You Don’t Want to be Caught Cheating

When you want to fool around, but don’t want to drag any evidence back with you, there are a few lies that you can tell women to make sure that she doesn’t leave you with any marks that you’ll end up having to explain to your wife or girlfriend. You’re in the Military When you want to fool around with a girl, but you don’t want her to leave any hickeys or marks on you because you’re already dating someone else, you can tell her that you are in the military. In most cases, soldiers are not allowed to have hickeys or other marks on their necks, so when you tell her this, she will be happy to oblige not marking you. If she falls for this lie, you can continue to play into it by making sure that she doesn’t leave scratches all over your back or call you at certain times of the day. Telling her you’re in the military is a great lie, but you need to make sure that you don’t give her too much detail. Women are naturally curious and she may try to see if she can find as much as she can about you. Also, you never know what type of connections a…

Keeping the Momentum: When Your First Online Conversation Goes Well

Only you can know how much time and effort you’ve put into your search, and how many hurdles you’ve had to get over, to arrive at the point where you finally connect with one of the ladies whose profiles caught your eye. It might have often seemed like you spent time writing interesting things about yourself, taking good photos for your profile, and sending all those messages to say hello, just to watch them to disappear into a great, black void without a response. Now finally your efforts have paid off and you’ve sparked what you think is a real start with someone. She’s responding to your messages and so far seems interested in what she’s seen of you. At this point, you’re hoping that everything continues to go well. Don’t Get Too Confident As crucial as these first initial messages were to getting the ball rolling on actually meeting up with her in person, it’s important not to think that you can sit back now and everything will continue to work out. You still need to put in the same kind of effort and thought into what you say and do that got her interested and talking to you in the first place. So that means, basically, you need…

Is Being in a Band Still Going to Get You Chicks When You’re over 30?

So you never became a rock star. You and the boys still like to get together and churn out some music. But lately, you’ve started to wonder: is bragging to women that you’re in a band still impressive, or does it make you look immature? We’re not talking about quitting the band, but should you mention that when you’re trying to impress a woman at the bar? Should it be a cornerstone of your online dating profile, or should you skip it all together now that you’re not in your 20s anymore? Staying Youthful Bags You Ladies Who Are Young ) There’s a large percentage of young women who like older men. You seem experienced, world weary, just the right amount of experience to make them think that you’ve seen it all. Not to mention the fact that you’ve had a few extra years to get experience in bed that the co-ed down the hall she’s used to being with couldn’t even begin to match. Young women want older guys. If you look like a cool older guy, you’re all but guaranteed to score. She’ll love that you’re in a band because it makes you seem like you’re young at heart-and you are. Remember, 31 is only old to a…

How to Tell If She’s Desperate Just by Chatting Online

There are some rather obvious perks to hooking up with a desperate woman. She wants your attention so badly that she’ll do anything to get it. The best part is, usually the flaw she’s so desperate to make up for isn’t even that bad. Even if she’s not as desperate as a woman who used to be fat, if you can detect the traces of desperation early in your interactions you can formulate a game plan. You want to cash in on her neediness without tripping over into any crazy entanglements. Uses a Lot of Emoticons One or two emoticons are no big deal. This is especially true if she uses them for their real purpose: clarification of intent. There’s a huge difference between “We should talk,” and “We should talk. :)” If she’s using them just to clarify her intent, that’s fine. But if they’re bogging down every line she sends you on an instant messenger or punctuates every single sentence, she’s not afraid of being misunderstood. She’s paralyzed by the thought that she might be. This means that she needs you to like her, needs you to appreciate her, and needs you to see to her emotional needs. In one word? Desperate. Very Quick Responses If her responses…

How to Present Yourself as Athletic When You’re Not

Let’s face it: most ladies love an athletic man. What’s not to love? Muscle definition, good health, an abundance of energy-all of these are attributes that are very appealing to the fairer sex. So if you’re not really all that athletic but you’re interested in a woman that likes that in a man, it’s time to start brainstorming. Passing yourself off as an athlete is something you do at your own risk. If you’re only looking to get her into bed, she’ll figure out your game pretty quick once the clothes come off. And if you want to pursue a relationship with her she’s gradually going to come to understand that athletic isn’t really a word that describes you. However, if you can pull off the fa

How to Plan a Hot Weekend Getaway

Going out of town with a hot new fling is a fantasy come true for most guys. If you met the girl online, you’ve probably worked hard to reach this point. Unless you’ve discussed and agreed otherwise beforehand, if she’s said “yes” to a weekend getaway with you, it’s a pretty sure thing that there will be sex involved. A weekend getaway with her will not be like that weekend you had with the guys so if you want to pull this off, you’ll actually need to put in a little more time than you did then. Take Care of the Boring Stuff While stuff like hotel arrangements and plane tickets might not be foremost on your mind, they’re a necessary evil you need to take care of so you can focus on your real purpose. Check – and double check – that your hotel or other lodging is reserved for the correct nights. You do not want your limited time with her to be tied up in trying to find another hotel in the area. The same goes for plane or train tickets if that’s how you’re traveling. If you’re going to be driving down, make sure your car is in good condition and that you’ve got some kind…

Keeping Yourself from Getting Attached

When you want to find an easy fling it seems easy. Pick up a woman, take her out a few times, have sex, and call her when you want to do it again. But practice is far from theory. Once you’ve gotten to know each other putting on the breaks isn’t as easy as you would have thought. Feelings start to ruin everything. It’s not even completely on her side. You’ll start to get them too. But you have to do what you can to keep from getting attached. It’s not even a little bit easy and it’s going to suck, but if you really don’t want to dive head first into a relationship, you’re going to have to slow it down. Keep Texting Minimal You’ve got to keep texting to a minimal. The same goes for calling her. While it might be fun to flirt, the more you do it and keep in contact with her the stronger your bond will be. It’s going to feel good, but it’s also going to plummet you off the cliff. Keep the phone as a line between the two of you to set up booty calls (dates just for sex) and planning. If you are going to use the phone for anything,…

How to Have a Cyber Date

In a day and age when a lot of the world’s dating happens online, it leaves you to wonder what people do on the computer. Getting the profile online and finding the woman is only half the battle. Everything seems great when you’re chatting her up day and night. But after a while the cyber magic might die down. This is when you get to fancy it up and take her out on a cyber date. It’s not going to be quite as easy as a real life date since you obviously can’t touch, but you can still have a pretty good time. Make Dinner Message your cyber woman ahead of time and decide on a dinner the two of you would want to have together. It could be the same, like an at home dinner. Or you could switch it up and each get something different, like you were going out to a restaurant. Then you get to make it (or pick it up at a local restaurant). At home put it on a plate and doll it up like you were eating on a date together. Then when you turn on your webcam you can watch each other just like if you two were there in person. Dress…

How to Get a New Wardrobe On a Budget

Sometimes it can be difficult to start dating when you feel like you’re tired of looking and dressing the same way all the time. When this happens, one of the easiest ways to get yourself out of a slump is to change up your wardrobe. Obviously, buying brand new clothes can quickly become expensive. Fortunately, there are ways to create a new to your wardrobe for a fraction of the cost that you would spend in department stores. Hit the Thrifts A lot of people like to turn their noses up at the idea of shopping at the thrift shop, but these people clearly have no idea how many awesome things you can buy at a thrift store. If you’re still trying to figure out your wardrobe and whether or not you want to stick to one specific style or if you want to do a bit of experimenting, shopping at a thrift store could be a perfect idea for you. Believe it or not, thrift stores have everything from suits to gym shorts. If don’t know where to begin, you can start by thinking about a couple of different styles such as the hipster, the rugged, or the sophisticated look. Do a quick online search of what these styles…

How To Date a Religious Girl

It might seem counter-intuitive to think about dating or hooking up with a girl who says she’s religious, but it really isn’t as much of a dead end as you think. A lot of girls who describe themselves as religious still have sex, and are just as kinky – or kinkier – in bed than girls who are not. Why Date a Religious Girl Girls who come from religious homes or attended religious schools, tend to have gotten conflicting messages about sex and boundaries in sex. There’s a reason why there’s a stereotype of religious girls giving great blowjobs. To a religious girl, everything about sex is kinky and “dirty”, and there is nothing hotter and more of a turn on a lot of girls than kinky sex. Her Religion Makes a Difference People hold a wide variety of religious beliefs, so your first step in figuring out if there’s a possibility that you and she can work is to figure out exactly what religion this girl belongs to and what beliefs she follows. If you already know that she’s religious, it’s probably because she’s told you or posted it in her profile. If she belongs to one of the Christian religions, then her beliefs about sex might include prohibitions…

How to Avoid First Date Conversation Disasters

Nothing can sink a first date faster than saying the wrong thing. A good first date is crucial for a number of reasons. It’s your opportunity to show her that you’re funny, smart, charming, and more than a little sexy. Generally first date conversations tend to be a little awkward. This is because it’s a process of laying a foundation in terms of getting to know each other. A little awkward is a lot different from being swamped in awkward, which is why it’s important that you be able to keep conversation moving and away from hazardous topics. Think Ahead One of the easiest ways you can ensure that your first date talk stays on the right path is to plan ahead. Go ahead and get yourself updated on current events. Based on what you know about her interests, try to think up some interesting questions you could ask her. Stay away from the boring, traditional questions. Come up with creative inquiries to make conversations she’s probably already had with other men far more fun and interesting. Controlling the Conversation Avoiding conversational pitfalls isn’t hard. You just have to be willing to be the one to steer your discussions in the right direction. An obvious thing to stay away from…

How to Ask for an Open Relationship

Asking for an open relationship is hard in this monogamous culture. Women like to believe the rom-com story of the one person who can be your one and only. But in real life, that’s not always true. People just settle for who they can keep rather than seeking fulfillment in all areas of their life. If you want to ask your lady for an open relationship, here’s how to do it so that she doesn’t just hear “I want to sleep with other women, but I don’t want you to be mad about it.” Pick Your Moment You should only ask her this if the two of you are happy together, but it’s not a particularly intimate moment. If you’re looking deeply into her eyes under the stars, she’s only going to be thinking about you and her. Maybe go for a walk after lunch one day and just bring it up. If she seems like she’s not going to even listen to you, just back off. You can’t rush this. Sell the Philosophy Angle If you really want to get her to agree to this, you have to make her see that this is more than just sex. You’ll have to open her eyes to the theories behind polyamory…

Hooking Up With Artistic Girls

You have probably seen them before in coffee shops and art museums or roaming around on college campuses. Artistic girls might not seem like your type, but they can sometimes offer a better hookup or dating relationship than women you usually meet in bars or night clubs. Artistic girls can be a breath of fresh air after trying to hook up with stuck-up clubbers, and if you have a chance to hook up with a woman who is more artistic than your usual type, you should definitely go for it. Why You Should Hook Up With Them Artistic girls might not be the usual stacked women you go after, but appearances can be deceiving in this regard. While this does not apply for every woman with artistic interests, they are usually much more laid-back and down to earth than the women you may have been pursuing in the past. Not only that, but a creative mind can apply to other aspects of life as well. Yes, you’re thinking about the right thing – artistic women are more likely to be creative in bed, which can lead to a seriously enlightening hookup if you can get her to go along with it. How to Attract Artistic Girls The most important thing…

Hooking Up with an Immature Woman

Not every guy gets their first pick in the dating field. You might want tall, brunette, and intelligent but often times you can get just about the opposite. Some might consider you lucky if you can get a young sexy woman who’s barely legal. At first it will seem awesome. She’s perky in all of the right places, giggly, and knows how to have fun. But after a while things might start going south. She won’t care about your age or even that you have very little in common, but she will start acting her own age. What does that mean, exactly? Be Prepared for Whining An immature young woman isn’t going to have the logic or reason that older women posses. There may not even be a lot of it then, but at least it’s there. She’ll want to complain or whine about all of those stupid things that you’ve already gone through. Maybe she’s got a dead end job or her friends ditched her for a party last week. To you it seems totally trivial but for her it’s the end of the world. She might even start to whine about you not spending time or money on her. What You Can Do About It Take all of…

Hooking Up with a Boring Woman (But At Least She’s Hot)

Sometimes you might end up living in a place where the pickings are pretty slim. The women might be unattractive, rude, or sleep around. Consider yourself lucky. Some men have to sink so low as to hook up with a boring woman. It doesn’t sound like the worst thing when you say it out loud, but think about it. When you’re having a fling with someone whose personality is as colorful as white bread you’re going to get bored along with her really quickly. The only saving grace she’s got is that she’s sexy. So how can you deal? Accept It Having sex with a boring woman and expecting her to scream like a banshee is just stupid. She’s most likely going to become a dead fish (not the squirming kind, the kind that’s been rotting in the boat). She’ll lay there and take what you’ve got, but not really do much in turn. Her bouncing bosom might be enough to quell your eyes, but that’s about all that’s going to happen on her end. What You Can Do About It You might be tempted to actually put a lot of effort in for a while. Maybe your amazing dick will be what breaks her boring shell. But most likely…

Have the Freedom of Casual Even When You’re Committed

You’re really into your committed girlfriend, but you miss some parts of your old bachelor life. You don’t want to trade in your sex life for freedom, so what can you do? With these three methods of attack you can find yourself with tons of freedom and still have a girlfriend to boot! Have a Schedule for Meeting You’re just the kind of guy who needs a lot of structure in your life. Or, if you’re not, you’ve decided to become the kind of guy who needs a lot of structure in his life. Either way, set up the evenings that you’re going to spend with her, and work out how attentive you need to be to her texts and calls. Once you’ve worked out the evenings and days (and nights) you’re going to be spending with her, make that time just about her. The rest of the time? That’s your time. Use it as you see fit. Be Supportive of Her Going Out If your girlfriend spends every night at home, she’s not going to be as open to you going out and doing whatever you want. She’s going to want you home with her instead of out with the guys. The simple solution? Have her go out more!…

Fashion Trends You Should Avoid if You Want to Attract Women

One important aspect of the dating scene is making sure that you present yourself in the best way possible. Unfortunately, that usually includes your fashion choices. Fashion tends to be difficult to understand even for women, but fashion works to their advantage because they have such a broader range of choices. For men, it can be much more difficult to know what will look good on you and what will make you look extremely silly or just plain terrible. Fashion trends come and go, and sometimes it can be difficult to know what will stay popular or what will go out of style faster than you can blink. Trends That Seem Over the Top Just because your favorite celebrity or singer has decided that drop-waist metallic pants or socks with clogs is the latest fashion does not mean that you should, too. If a trend seems like it would be better fitted for a modern art museum or on a ridiculous high-fashion runway, then it is definitely something you should avoid. You should remember that most celebrities have stylists that choose what they wear, and more often than not it winds up being ridiculous. It works for them because they’re famous and they don’t really have a choice, but you…

Exit Strategies for Disastrous Dates

Considering how hard it can be to land a date in the first place, it might seem counter-intuitive to contemplate ways to ditch a date, but the truth is sometimes things just don’t work out in a major way. It might be a date where there’s no physical attraction at all – maybe she used an old photo of herself to lie about her looks or body type. Or maybe she misled you about her personality when you were getting to know her online, and in person she’s getting on your last nerve. Either way, you don’t want to waste any more of your time with her, when you could be looking for a girl who actually comes close to what you’re looking for. Some chicks can handle a straightforward “This isn’t going to work out, sorry.” Others can’t, and will not hesitate to make a scene if you dump her. If it looks like you’re dealing with the latter, what you need is a plan to exit your disastrous date. Create an Emergency This is a tried and true method because it works. Get to the restroom, call a friend and have him call your phone in 15 minutes. When you get the call, pretend it’s your boss, parent,…

Dating Sisters: Is It Worth It?

There is definitely something exciting when it comes to the thought of dating sisters. We’re not sure what it is, but knowing that you’re sleeping with women who are siblings is both kinky and fun. However, there are still issues that come along with dating sisters. When you’re dating sisters, you have the potential to ruin their relationship permanently. You also run the risk of the two of them joining together to make your life completely hell. When it comes to dating sisters, there are a few things you should always keep in mind in order to decide whether or not dating sisters is worth it. What Type of Relationship Do They Have If you date sisters who already have a bad relationship, it could either work out to your advantage or to your disadvantage. In some cases, the sisters will try to vie for your attention by any means necessary. This means trying to win you over with gifts and of course sex. This is obviously an advantage as you’re reaping all of the benefits of these two constantly trying to one up the other. However, sometimes when you date sisters, they can turn into maniacs and you’ll end up stuck in the middle of it. You may end…

Dates That She’ll Hate

When you hit the dating and hookup scene, the last thing you want to do is wind up taking your date somewhere and have it be a total flop. Picking a location and activity for your date is nerve wracking enough without having to imagine all the ways it can go wrong. It can also be difficult to tell if something you think would be a great date will actually wind up being terrible. Knowing what kinds of dates women really don’t want to go on can help you decide where to avoid when you take her out, so you should try and keep some of these things in mind when choosing where to go. Don’t Take Her Out to a Ball Game Unless you know for a fact that the woman you are dating is a serious sports fan, you should never take her out to a sports event. It doesn’t matter how badly you want to go or how much you spent on the tickets, she is not going to appreciate it. You wouldn’t want to spend hours watching something that bores you to tears, and neither do women. She may act chipper during the date, but you can bet she will be checking her watch in anticipation…

Common Dating Ground: Using Music as an Icebreaker

Approaching a girl for the first time can put you in an awkward position. Unless you’re suave and collected 24/7, encountering a gorgeous woman can really take a toll on your conversational abilities. The same goes for a first date – you need to be able to say something that can break the ice and catch her interest. Music is a topic that’s universally comfortable. Even if she’s not a huge music fan, chances are better than good that there are some bands or artists or songs she really likes. What better way to get her talking and get her interested than by asking about music? It’s How You Ask Obviously, sauntering up to her and demanding to know what kind of music she listens to right off the bat isn’t going to endear you to her. Use the topic of music as an icebreaker, which is to say you introduce yourself and let her do the same. Don’t blurt out a bland question asking her what type of music she likes. Instead find a more interesting route to bring up the topic. Be innovative with your questions and try to avoid the same old inquiries that she’s probably been subject to many times before. The Good Old Days A…

Changing Your Look

It seems like most articles about hair focus almost specifically on women. However, men may want to change their look by changing their hairstyles, too. There are many factors that come into play when it comes to hair and how to change it for a new look. Luckily, if you follow directions or seek help from experienced stylists, you can get the new look you want without dealing with any setbacks or disappointments. Dying Your Hair One of the easiest ways to make a noticeable change to your look is by changing your hair color. Dying your hair isn’t as difficult as you may think, but it does require effort and sometimes even some trial and error. The first thing you need to consider is what color you’d like your hair to be. Sometimes, even going just a few shades lighter or darker can be a dramatic change for you depending on different factors. If you’re not sure what color you want your hair to be, try looking at different photos of men with the same skin complexion and facial structure as you. If you can spring for it, you may want to get your hair professionally dyed. Even the strongest hair fibers can become damaged from the chemicals found…

Big Mistakes Most Guys Make on First Dates

First dates can be absolutely terrifying. If you have been online dating or if you’re on a blind date, you’re likely meeting your date for the first time in person. If you’ve been friends with your date for a while, you’re trying to figure out how to break out of the platonic friendship and become more intimate. Either way, there are a lot of reasons why you may be feeling anxious about your first date. Being anxious makes you much more likely to make a serious mistake that could lead to the end of the date or the end of the possible relationship. Knowing what you need to look out for will make you much less likely to commit any of these mistakes. Making it Too Serious Making a first date seem like a really big deal is a quick and easy way to make things uncomfortable for all parties involved, so you should never do it. First dates are usually supposed to be casual affairs, so try to be as relaxed as possible and make it fun. You’re not going to a job interview, and this isn’t going to be the end of the world if it does not go well. If you treat a date too seriously, you…

A Basic Guide to Public Sex

Public sex is a common fantasy that most people don’t act on. If you want to take your sex life to the next level this is an easy way to do it. The risk creates a pulse-pounding surge of interest even if there isn’t much chance of you getting caught. You’ll look like a bold man to your lady. It’s a win-win situation. Here’s how you can get started. Picking a Spot When you’re just starting out with public sex your first stop shouldn’t be the steps of the courthouse at noon. You need to start small. Trust us, you’ll still get a major thrill out of it. Start by heading to the park. Sex on a blanket on some grass is memorable and a great, gentle start for your first time doing the deed outside of a house. Some general tips for your first time out of doors includes scoping the place out before hand. If a normally empty hiking trail is on the route for a public jogging club every Thursday afternoon, that’s something that you should really know before you take your sweetheart there. Making Sure You Get the Job Done Anyone who’s ever been in a school play knows that performing in public is a lot…

3 Things to Keep in Your Car for No-Strings Hookups

When you in the mood for a no-strings hookup, there are a few things that can make your hookup go as smoothly as possible. When you keep these items in your car, you won’t have to rush around for what to do when the time comes. You’ll already have them with you. Condoms and Lube Sometimes the two of you may be so into each other that you may not be able to make it to either of your homes or to a motel. More importantly, if either of you are taken, you may not have a house to fool around in. If this is the case, your car may become the best place for you to hook up. If you’re messing around on your wife or girlfriend, make sure you hide your condoms. You can easily take them out of the box and stick them underneath your seat or in an envelope of your glove compartment. If you have a key to your glove compartment, keep it locked in case your lady is the type that enjoys snooping around. Make sure you know how many condoms you have in your and exactly where they are located at all times. Do not leave them in obvious places to decrease the…

3 Signs That She’s Hiding Something From You

Don’t get us wrong – everybody hides something. It’s the name of the game in dating when you’re trying to make yourself and your profile as attractive and appealing as possible to the opposite sex. However when you’re dating online, there are certain things that should send a red flag up in your mind if she’s been dancing around revealing them to you. It may be a sign that she’s straight out lying to you….maybe even about being a real person. She Won’t Tell You Who She is Let’s say you’ve been chatting with a hot girl for some time. You’ve exchanged names, pictures and video, so you think everything’s good. But for some reason, although this has been going on for weeks or even months, she still won’t give you basic information like her last name, which might be all well and good, except that the reason you’re both online in the first place is to meet and date people. When a girl seems to like you enough to flirt with you for long periods of time, but isn’t willing to give up her last name or what part of the city she lives in, then you might as well cut your losses and move on. This girl might…

3 Reasons to Date Plus Size Women

Dating a plus size women can be exciting and interesting depending on what kind of woman you’re dating. Plus size women can offer you some things that slim women can’t. More importantly, the sex can be completely amazing. They Can Handle Rough Sex OK, not all plus size women can handle rough sex, but a lot of them can. Larger women can handle your most powerful thrusts with no problem. You also don’t have to worry about hard bones and jabbing you in the sides or other uncomfortable places when you’re having sex with a bigger woman. Bigger woman are soft and cushiony and you don’t have to worry about feeling like you’re going to snap her in half while you’re having sex with her. There are some downfalls to having sex with a bigger woman, though. Some of the positions you may want to put her in might be physically impossible for her. If they aren’t impossible, she may not be able to stay in them for long. We still think that the pros outweigh the cons, but that is a choice that you will have to make. They Help You Build Muscle If you’ve never been a fan of going to the gym, sex with a bigger woman…

3 Reasons to Date College Women

Dating college women is great. Most college women are fun and exciting and offer you something that older women just don’t have. If you’ve been thinking about dating a college woman, you should look at the advantages of dating them. If you’re a busy man or don’t like when women are too clingy, dating a college woman could be a great option for you. They Won’t Cling One of the best reasons to date college women is that they won’t cling to you. While it seems like they may, especially if they’re struggling college students, most women in college are so busy with classwork, papers, and part-time jobs, they don’t have time to cling to you all day and night. In fact, if you’re dating a college woman, you may only see her once or twice a week. When you do see her, she’ll probably be so stressed out from studying, all she’ll want to do is release some pent up tension. They’re Easy to Cheat On Similar to the reason why they won’t cling, college women are easy to cheat on because they are busy. If the woman that you’re dating has classes during the day, that gives you plenty of time to hookup with flings and various no-strings…

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